Kemarin ketemuan dengan ibu2 sesama single mom. Beragam cerita, beragam latar belakang, beragam sikap menghadapinya. Pd akhirnya semua survive. Atau hrs survive....
Yg menarik adalah ketika ada yg share materi workshop tentang healing. Self acceptance dll... hmm... jadi kepikiran pengen ikut (do I need that?).
Ada yg share pengalaman selama ini menghadapi pasangan yg sulit. Lalu menyerah. Bercerai. Dan ternyata itu mempengaruhi cara dia menyelesaikan masalah2 dalam periode hidup setelahnya. Bener nggak sih bahwa periode cinta2an itu hanya bertahan 2 tahun (katanya)? Setelah itu akan ada storm dan cara kita handle itu akan mempengaruhi hidup sesudahnya.
Hmm....
Lucu juga ya.
Krn mungkin memang begitulah. Berpasangan itu bukan masalah bisa hidup dengan dia. Maunya sih berpasangan itu krn memang nggak bisa hidup tanpa dia. Jd nggak ada jalan lain. Harus sama dia. Caranya? Ya mungkin hrs kompromi. Habis gimana? Daripada nggak hidup?
Baiklah, mari kita camkan hal itu baik2.
Monday, October 03, 2016
For Good
I've heard it said
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you...
Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes a sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you
I have been changed for good
It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend...
Like a ship blown from its mooring
By a wind off the sea
Like a seed dropped by a skybird
In a distant wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you
But then, I guess we know
There's blame to share
Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes the sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you...
Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes a sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you
I have been changed for good
It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend...
Like a ship blown from its mooring
By a wind off the sea
Like a seed dropped by a skybird
In a distant wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you
I have been changed for good
And just to clear the air
I ask forgiveness
For the things I've done, you blame me for
I ask forgiveness
For the things I've done, you blame me for
But then, I guess we know
There's blame to share
And none of it seems to matter anymore
Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes the sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
I do believe I have been changed for the better
I do believe I have been changed for the better
And because I knew you...
Because I knew you...
I have been changed for good...
For Good - Wicked
(Missing you badly today. This song reminds me of you who came into my life and changed me for good, for always. Thank you, you know who you are.)
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